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Sex and homosexuality

There are many issues on your planet that are complicated and hard to deal with.  If only life could be like this meadow we are walking through.  Simple, calm, peaceful and beautiful.  It can be, if you choose to do so.

 

"Death" is a great issue in your world, one that you prefer not to talk about.  Sexuality is another.

 

I know that many will not agree with what is said in this section of the book.  This does not surprise me, since humanity can't seem to decide how sex should be used.  If you do not agree with what is said here, then that is okay.  Keep going with what you are doing right now.  I make no judgment upon you or what you do.

 

Everyone, at one time or another, struggles with their sexuality.  So many see it as harmful and sinful.  Yet think about this for a moment.  Who do you suppose made sex?  Who made the penis and the vagina?  I did.  Who created the sperm and the egg?  I did.  I made sex, and I gave it to you as a gift, both to have children, and to express your love to others.

 

Therefore, if I created something and gave it to you for you to use, why would it be a sin to use my gift?

 

Religions have taught you that you should be ashamed of your bodies, of your natural functions.  Yet this is silly.  I created your bodies.  I made them for a purpose.  I gave your body's feelings, desires, instincts, etc.  Why should you be ashamed of something I created?

 

I need to say this now, before we discuss sex.  I do not make any judgments on it whatsoever.  I do not care how you use sex in your life.  That is up for you to decide.  Does that mean you're free to run about having sex with everyone?  If that is what you want to do, then that is your choice.


But I must point out my child that everything you do in life has consequences, both good and not so good.  Please be aware that there are consequences to having sex as well.  If you have sex with many people, the act of sex will diminish in value and meaning.  If you have sex with a HIV positive partner, then you could catch the disease.  If you are young and you have sex with a boyfriend or a girlfriend, then the two of you could inadvertently have a child.  These are possible consequences of having sex.

 

But there can also be good consequences to having sex.  Physical intercourse is the most powerful form of love you have to a partner, or someone you are deeply in love with.  If you use sex in a form that is good for you, you can show a person how deeply you care about them, thus enriching your relationship! This is a good consequence of having sex.

 

Likewise, if you want to have children and raise a family, then you can have sex with your partner and bring a new spirit to this planet, to further enrich it and make it a more beautiful place.  This too, is a good consequence of having sex.

 

Sex is a tool, and like any tool it can be used in ways that are beneficial to you, and it can be used in ways that are not beneficial to you.  I will tell you that the act of sex should be used to express your deep love and care for your partner.  If you use sex in love, then it will bring you untold pleasure and excitement.  However, if you use the act of sex in lust, then you can diminish sex's true power and intention.

 

In summary, sex is a tool that, if you want the most benefit, should be used to express your love and affection towards your partner.  If sex is used with lust, rather then love, then it can bring negative consequences.

 

If you are young and you wish to have sexual intercourse with your boyfriend and girlfriend, then do so.  But please be aware of the possible consequences that may come your way.

 

Then there is the act of masturbating.  Again, I do not make any judgment upon it whatsoever.  It is simply a natural act that everyone goes through at one time or another.  Have you noticed how animals masturbate?  They are doing what comes naturally, and they do not fear or shun it.

 

Masturbating can be used to explore your own sexuality and learn more about it.  There is nothing wrong with the act itself.  But as with sexual intercourse, please be aware of the possible consequences.  Masturbating too much can be a problem when it interferes with your everyday life.  Likewise, if it takes over the desire to have sex with a partner, then you might want to examine what exactly you are trying to achieve.

 

I cannot stress this enough.  Though I make no judgment on human sexuality, there are consequences, both good and bad, for what people do sexually. 

 

 

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Now we come to a topic that everyone inevitably wonders about.  The issue about homosexuality.

 

"What about Homosexuality?!"  Humanity asks me.

 

"What about it?"  I ask back.

 

You humans are not aware of how I view you.  Gender is a temporary thing in the grand scheme of the universe.  You all live multiple lives, you just don't remember them.  All of you have been male and female. 

 

When I see you going about your daily activities on earth, I do not see you as a male or a female.  Instead, I see you as light.  I see you as light that walks around, that does things.  I know your light (which is you) personally and completely, without the need for gender.

 

Therefore, when two people make love, I only see light.  I do not see male and female, male and male, female and female, etc.  I only see the light between two of my creations as they come together.

 

As I said earlier, I make no judgments on sexuality.  I do not care if you are heterosexual or homosexual.  I do not care if you are bi or straight.  I do not care if you are attracted to men or women.

 

I am a mother and father essence.  Therefore, I understand your need and attraction towards members of the opposite sex, or members of the same sex.  Remember that I know you inside and out.  And I love you all the same. 

 

But what about what your holy books?  Do they not say that homosexuality is an abomination?  That is true, but remember that my nature never changes.  I have always been, and I always will be, all accepting love for everyone, no matter who they are.  Only your views of me have changed.


In ancient times, homosexuality was seen as an abomination, as something that is not natural. The authors of the bible put in their own negative views on it.  Yet, who do you think invented homosexuality?  Who do you think invented heterosexuality?  Who do you think invented Bisexuality?  I did.  I invented all three.


I do not reject you or turn away from you just because of your sexual orientation (and don't forget that I do not reject or turn anyone away in the first place).  The passages that teach that homosexuality is evil and an abomination are not from me.  They are fear based passages that I did not inspire or send.

 

Does your Christian bible say that the greatest commandment say that you should love each other?  That is a true statement.  It does not say "You should love everyone except homosexuals."  When it says everyone, it really does mean everyone, regardless of religion, sexual orientation, nationality, etc.  That is because I love everyone, regardless of religion, sexual orientation, nationality, etc.

 

I am never-ending, all accepting love.  I truly do not care about your sexual preference.  Do you think I am angry when you spread love, whether it is to someone of your own sex or to someone of the opposite sex?  No!  I am very happy when you spread love to anyone!

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